We do kink, like we do most everything, for a great many and varied reasons. And, so long as no one is being harmed, all those reasons are valid. They may not match yours, you may not even like them, but they're still valid all the same.
"You can have a great amount of fun in the moment, feel connected to the people you did it with, give some thought to the experiences and look for patterns and things you can learn, but also be willing to feel things about them and let that be meaningful, too. Human interaction is complex. There’s no reason why we shouldn’t allow our kink to be complex, too."
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