That is NOT How You Use a Frying Pan

AHHHH!

AHHHH!

I'm a girl and AHHHH!

This is yet another reason why people need to learn about their kinks before they try to act them out.

Because AHHHH!

Fun With Frying Pans

And--as much as the squicky, balls-backward CBT play is terrible--what I hated most was when the writer says, "But I'm wondering, since dom women probably don't care if they fuck up the guys they torture, should I be concerned about permanent damage?"

If this is your idea of BDSM--if this is your idea of an ideal play scene or play partner--you really shouldn't be doing this. I can't even imagine why you would want to.