Friday, July 19, 2013

That is NOT How You Use a Frying Pan



I'm a girl and AHHHH!

This is yet another reason why people need to learn about their kinks before they try to act them out.

Because AHHHH!

Fun With Frying Pans

And--as much as the squicky, balls-backward CBT play is terrible--what I hated most was when the writer says, "But I'm wondering, since dom women probably don't care if they fuck up the guys they torture, should I be concerned about permanent damage?"

If this is your idea of BDSM--if this is your idea of an ideal play scene or play partner--you really shouldn't be doing this. I can't even imagine why you would want to.

Thursday, July 18, 2013

This is Why I Love Dan Savage

Great kinkster advice: 

Question: I went to London in June to get with a guy who has an amazing dungeon. I spent a week being his slave boy and getting tied up and caged, and I had a blast. He posted some pictures of me to his porny Tumblr, which I was okay with, but some gossipy vanilla boys I go to school with recognized me even though my face was blurred out. NO! What do I say to them?!?

Answer: "I had a blast."

It really is that simple.